Man this may have to be the hardest fact to accept. All you want to do is fix it. Make that person see you the way they used to. You know all of the mistakes you made and what has lead you to that point. But is it too late? How do you fix it?
You want to talk and find out if there is a chance to fix things. I have no answers. All I have is what I would like to happen and what I want to do to make things right.
But fixing things is a two way street. Yeah you may have done things that led you to this point but there are things that have occurred that led you to act that way.
The biggest things is… YOU CANNOT FIX THINGS IF THE OTHER PERSON IS NOT WILLING TO TRY! We all want to and will push and push to fix it but then we get frustrated and angry that nothing is changing. But it’s not changing because the other person is not putting that same amount of effort. They are not fully grasping the situation or understanding.
If anyone has any suggestions I am all ears!